Showing posts with label Personal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Personal. Show all posts

Thursday, March 11, 2010

My Family My Everything

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Meet My Girls

Time really flies. Compare these photos with the one on the sidebar, the girls have grown up a lot. And.. I must have grown older as well... how reluctant...




Friday, September 4, 2009

習慣,就是時間累積而來的一種動作

早上,我總是走進7-eleven。

走了走,東選西選,還是選回了每天吃的三明治。

進到辦公室坐下後,總是開了機收信,然後放歌,

看了看,上選下選,還是聽起了那首最愛聽的。

開始寫程式前,總是洗了洗杯子走近飲水機,

看著瓶瓶罐罐,最後還是拿了一包就走。

人生總有很多的選擇。

每天要面對的選擇,很多。

吃什麼,做什麼,玩什麼,看什麼....

雖然你每天都在做選擇。

不過,總是...總是...會選回你每次選的那個。

因為習慣。

習慣,是時間累積而來的一種動作。

情人間常說:「我對你不再有愛,都變成了習慣了。」

其實,習慣並沒有什麼不好。

它讓你自然的去做。

自然的去想他,自然的去愛他。

當你已經不覺得自己在付出時,

也許你覺得,你己開始習慣,有他陪伴在你的生命中,

那才是真的愛。

有什麼不好?

我一直認為

很多事情開始要一個人獨自去做時

就失去它的意義:

當習慣了兩個人一起吃飯
習慣了兩個人一起看書
習慣了兩個人一起工作
習慣了兩個人一起散步
習慣了兩個人一起回家
習慣了兩個人一起聊天
習慣了兩個人一起商量事情
習慣了兩個人一起發呆
習慣了兩個人一起喝咖啡
習慣了兩個人一起..........

開始一個人

很多快樂都不再了...

請珍惜你身邊所有

把握任何一個美麗的機會

失去了就不再了...

現在請你回想一下

你習慣的那個人,是不是讓你感覺很熟悉,就像家人一樣?

這種感覺,不是那麼容易就可以擁有的,應該好好的珍惜。

也許有天你失去了,才會明白這個人,在你的心理是佔了很大的位置。

好緣份是很神奇的東西,它只送給用心去經營的人。

最近你是否不再那麼用心,去關心或態度冷淡了嗎???

趕快去抓住你那個熟悉的人吧,必竟你們曾經走過那一段,不是嗎?

Thursday, September 3, 2009

LIFEBOOK 2009

Health:

1. Drink plenty of water
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants, and eat less food that is manufactured in plants
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy
5. Make time for prayer
6. Play more games
7. Read more books than you did in 2008
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day
9. Sleep for 7 hours
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day ---- and while you walk, smile


Personality:

11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do ; keep your limits
14. Don't take yourself so seriously ; no one else does
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
16. Dream more while you are awake
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Community:

25. Call your family often
26. Each day give something good to others
27. Forgive everyone for everything
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day
30. What other people think of you is none of your business
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

32. Do the right things
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
34. GOD heals everything
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
37. The best is yet to come
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

Last but not the least :

40. Share this with everyone you care about.

只有十句话,我却看了十分钟

第一句

如果我们之间有1000步的距离

你只要跨出第1步

我就会朝你的方向走其余的999步

第二句

通常愿意留下来跟你争吵的人

才是真正爱你的人

第三句

付出真心 才会得到真心

却也可能伤得彻底

保持距离 就能保护自己

却也注定永远寂寞

第四句

有时候 不是对方不在乎你

而是你把对方看得太重

第五句

朋友就是把你看透了 还能喜欢你的人

第六句

就算是believe 中间也藏了一个lie

第七句

真正的好朋友

并不是在一起就有聊不完的话题

而是在一起 就算不说话

也不会感到尴尬

第八句

没有一百分的另一半

只有五十分的两个人

第九句

为你的难过而快乐的 是敌人

为你的快乐而快乐的 是朋友

为你的难过而难过的

就是那些 该放进心里的人

第十句

冷漠 有时候并不是无情

只是一种避免被伤害的工具


PS: 本人觉得这十句话很有深度,很有意思。认真去思考,你会得到意想不到的收获。

Monday, August 31, 2009

When you don't have a choice

What would you do when you don't have a choice?

I know better than anyone else, it is not the best option. I can't sacrifice the innocent. But I was left with no choice, what else can I do.

I am not sure whether I will regret it in future, but for the time being, this is the best I can do. Hope everything will be fine.

Have you found yourself in the same situation like mine, left with no choice. Mind to share with me your story?